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Old 06-24-2007, 09:26 PM
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okay a lil back round info for those who don't know me. I have 2 kids and I am 20 years old. I had a tubal ligation after my last. Now I have been having horrible feelings of regret here just 6 months past. I feel like I have given something up here. I hate the fact that I got my tubes tied...I should have just done a **** IUD or something b/c at the time it was a very stressful situation when my daughter made it into the world. I am + that I want one more child. now right now...like in 2 years. So I think I am going to talk to my dr about a reversal. I have to check into cost and the possible outcomes etc. I feel like such a fool for doing it now. my SILs are getting preggo left and right and I feel a tad bit jealous now which I hate feeling. I just wish I never gave up my CHOICE.
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Old 06-24-2007, 09:45 PM
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I am sorry you are feeling this way. You still have a choice hun-get the reversal done and have another baby if you want one. You are very young, so your chances of getting pregnant after a reversal are very, very high. Good luck to you and I'm sending you a great big HUG!
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Old 06-25-2007, 01:45 AM
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Sorry to hear that. Hope you can get everything back on track. I know how it is to feel about a third and not being able to have one.

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Old 06-25-2007, 03:24 AM
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Amazing how your feelings change isn't it. I felt done after #3 and then 4 years later desperately wanted another. I hope you can get it reversed.
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Old 06-25-2007, 04:19 AM
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I hope all works out well with the doctor! Good luck!
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Old 06-25-2007, 05:32 AM
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i hope your doctor is positive about a reversal, did you have the clips or have the tubes cut?
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Old 06-25-2007, 05:51 AM
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Hope it all works out
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Old 06-25-2007, 07:35 PM
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I am going to get a copy of the OR report to see how my ligation was done. I read that I have higher chances for pregnancy if they were clamped and not burned. we will see. and Jo I know what you mean I felt complete but not I am not so sure anymore...
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