Advice on a friend
I was hoping you all would be able to offer some words of wisdom or advice. My best friend of 14 years just recently lost her partner to a drugs overdose (no one knew he was taking cocaine). It has been 3 months and she has not returned to work and at present she is ripping up tiles and putting down new ones, she has re-painted the whole house again, changed the curtains and re-done her garden. So my question is this - is this normal behaviour of someone who is greiving for a partner of should I be worried about her behaviour as its not only re doing the house anytime she has a few drinks she goes a bit loopy trying to fit with people of sometimes she drives her car with drink in her. She has 2 young kids also.
Any advise?
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