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my husband has a married female friend who he met on an online game even before he met me. they used to contact each other regularly until my husband and i got together. now they contact each other every once in a while via cell phone or e-mails to catch up on their personal lives. she is going to leave her husband and she's not financially secure. my husband offered her some money to help her move to her sister's house. he then decided to let me know of his decision. i'm really upset that he did not consult with me first and i don't agree with his decision. i feel disrespected because he offered money to another woman who i've never met, i don't consider her a "real"friend, and he didn't discuss it with me first. am i making a big deal out of nothing?