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Old 01-05-2009, 06:35 AM
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I'm not sure where to put this. I wrote about this before about wanting another baby. That feeling still hasn't gone away. It's actually getting worse. It doesn't help that almost all the women in the office are preggers, and I see baby bumps everywhere! I just want to have another baby.

Is anyone else feeling this way?
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Old 01-05-2009, 06:38 AM
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Lindsay, do you miss being pregnant?
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Old 01-05-2009, 06:49 AM
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i found for the first few months i wanted another but when i really thought about it, it was that i was missing being PG i really didn't, and still don't (not yet anyway), have any desire to have another child
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Old 01-05-2009, 06:54 AM
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i go through spurts....most of the time i end my thoughts in "Am I CRAZY???" haha we have been through so much with kaydee the past few months that I think i will count my blessings with the two i have...for now anyway
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Old 01-05-2009, 07:05 AM
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I think I miss being pregnant. I never really got to enjoy my pregnancy with James because I was so afraid to m/c again. I do want another child though, and I'm not getting any younger. My clock is ticking, and it's getting louder every day!
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Old 01-05-2009, 08:03 AM
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Well, be careful of the spacing, that it works for you. My mom had a baby clock issue, my brother was a surprise, born 13 months after me. She was 41 and exhausted for the next 5 years or so.
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Old 01-05-2009, 09:25 AM
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Does your dh feel the same way????
I know what you mean but enjoy your son for now! My dd was 5 months when i fell pregnant and like you i worry everyday about m/c and i feel sooooo guilt cos i should be really enjoying being with her, i mean i love her with alll my heart shes my world BUT i can't do the things i should be doing with her!
Think long and hard hun before ou decide anything, ((((hugs)))) GL in your desicion.
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Old 01-05-2009, 09:43 AM
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I understand the desire to have another one...but I agree. I was pregnant with Keanu when Kate was 3 months old and couldn't really enjoy Katelyn as much. After I lost him I realized how much I was missing with Katelyn. It's hard to decide but I think that the first year hard to replace. I would try to wait at least until he is a year old but you know best.
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Old 01-05-2009, 09:45 AM
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I loved the attention when I was pregnant! I also would love more babies!
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Old 01-05-2009, 09:54 AM
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I remember the part when I missed being pregnant. It faded away and I realized (at the time) that I absolutely did not want another one yet!

I managed to maintain that frame of mind for a good 2 years+, but for the past week or so I have been going nuts with thoughts of having another baby.

I think its maybe for the same reason you stated-my biological clock is ticking and I'm not getting any younger. My birthday is coming up later this month and I am going to be 28. Add to the fact that I am not even dating anyone....and yeah...recipe for a crazy lady.

I really always thought I would have children close in age, but that dream may be crushed pretty soon.

So heck, I say if you want another one, try for him/her! You and you husband are the only ones who can say how big you want your family to be. Good luck with your decision!
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