[deskjet]

My wife had two miscarriages, is there any chances for her to give birth to a healthy baby what steps she has to undertake to avoid miscarriages, if any one has solution for this problem reply me

[quagmire8]

Yes! There are many families on this board that have experienced two miscarriages and have gone on to have healthy children! (I am not one of those people, I have had 1 miscarriage and will start TTC again in July). As far as preventing, there are some things that your significant other can do, such as avoid caffeine in the first trimester. She should also be taking care of her self before becoming pregnant (prenatal vitamins every day, exercising, eating well, and trying to be as stress free as possible <which is very difficult if TTC!>). Goodluck to you! There are many wonderful people on this message board who can give support and share their stories! Again, goodluck!

[hartoog2]

Yes, I agree with everthing quagmire has mentioned... there is always a chance for you and your wife! A friend of mine had 5 m/c and went to to have two healthy boys right after each other. I had a m/c after my first successful pregnancy. I got PG right after and DD came along just fine. We are struggling again with TTC #3 - I've had two m/c in a row this year- but from the test results my Dr says there isn't any reason why I can't get PG again and keep it this time. I'm not sure of your circumstances or if they suspect a cause - with my 3 where wasn't anything that we could put it down to but my dr did not start any tests etc until after my third m/c. Good luck to you and your wife.

[andrewking]

Originally Posted by quagmire8

Yes! There are many families on this board that have experienced two miscarriages and have gone on to have healthy children! (I am not one of those people, I have had 1 miscarriage and will start TTC again in July). As far as preventing, there are some things that your significant other can do, such as avoid caffeine in the first trimester. She should also be taking care of her self before becoming pregnant (prenatal vitamins every day, exercising, eating well, and trying to be as stress free as possible <which is very difficult if TTC!>). Goodluck to you! There are many wonderful people on this message board who can give support and share their stories! Again, goodluck!

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[MissyChrissy]

I had 3 girls, then 3 losses, then finally had Conner 7 /12 years after my youngest daughter. I can only suggest she take prenatal vitamins as soon as she suspects she's pregnant (I wouldn't suggest taking them when not pregnant because there is the possibility of overload, if not overdose), and drinking plenty of orange juice.

Even having 3 healthy babies, I lost all hope for another one as well, so I can understand the frustration you both must be feeling.

I hope she receives her BFP soon, and that it is a sticky one.

[Aerie]

I had 6 miscarriages in a row before carrying Margary Rose to term. There was no pattern, and the OB/GYN never could figure out what was wrong. I had a uterine biopsy, tons of blood tests, tried natural progesterone, and finally prescribed progesterone. The difficulty with two miscarriages is that most docs won't do tests until you have had 3. The reason for this though, is that there is a good chance you won't have any problem with the next pregnancy and it's not worth it. If the two miscarriages followed the same pattern, and you suspect a specific problem , don't be shy about demanding testing. Find a doctor that will work with you on it. If you don't suspect a specific problem and your doc hasn't recommended more tests, then take hope. Chances a good that you will be holding a little one after the next positive pregnancy test.

For now, I would focus on your relationship together with each other. Miscarriages are a stress that can bring you closer or push you apart. Make sure it brings you closer. Mourn together, laugh together. Enjoy each other.

Make sure your wife gets plenty of protein, lots of fruits and veggies, a high quality healthy diet.

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Never give up hope.

Blessings,

[angelstarsmum]

i agree with everything everyone else has said, i had 1 late miscarriage at 19wks with triplets and 1 singleton at 10wks i'v demanded i be tested for my piece of mind as i am really scared in case it happens again as it is an awful experience to go through for both of us, if you both are not happy and want to see why this has happened you too should push to be tested. you might not have any awnsers but at least you know. good luck both and take care of each other and you will get a BFP soon.

[deskjet]

Thank you angel you are more liberal in thinking, what had happenned is happenned , i have courage to look forward. Im looking forward for the future.

[MiaCamille]

a cousin of mine had her first DD and then 2 M/C in a row and now she's almost 7 months and things are great... Have faith!