[kiwittc]

again this month....**** AF decided to visit and despite me being a regular 28 dayer she came 4 days early this time....just enough to screw up the timing of all the tests i had to do too!!!! Luckily it isnt a bad one but I am so annoyed at getting my hopes up again...

and has anyone else felt like they dont maybe want to get pg the next month or so because of when a baby would then be due?? I mean from now on any BFP will mean a bubs towards the end of the year next year...and I am not sure why I am feeling like that is a negative but I keep wanting another bubs in the beginning of the year like Ella was....I cant get that out of my head for some reason now...

[wanttobemommy]

I am sorry about AF and yes I think about what would happen if I got pg soon. That would mean for me that I would be preggers AGAIN during the hot months and I was really looking forward to having a baby in the early part of the year. I keep having dreams that I have a baby on Jaxons birthday. I hope you get your BFP when it is right for you and I hope that you can figure out your cycles

[jkl123]

Sorry about your BFN. I can totally relate to your concerns of when a baby would be due. When we were trying to conceive Jack, we started in Sept. and I soooo wanted a late spring/early summer baby. But, it took us til early Feb. to be successful, so he came in October. I remember that I was considering NOT trying in Feb., 'cause he'd be born close to my other son (whose b-day is Oct. 7th, and Jack's is Oct. 10th). I am so glad I tried anyway, or Jack may not be here. Once you're pregnant, the 'perfect timing' doesn't even matter anymore!

[mommy2067]

Sorry to hear about af and early to boot!!! Wishing you all the best with your timing and your future BFP!!!

[2006Mama]

Sorry about the BFN , Good Luck next month

[browneyes01]

just keep trying it will work out the way you want it too. whats so wrong with having a baby at the end of the year at least when th summer comes he/she will be old enough to really enjoy it.

[Adara]

I know how you feel about the birthdate. For some reason I didn't want to have a baby at the end of the year. Spring or summer was fine with me, everything past the 1st Jan even. It's the same with what sex of baby we'd "prefer" and when you get your bfp it doesn't matter any more. I so hope your cycle gets into regular form and I remember you writing something about bicornuate uterus some time ago. Over here it doesn't seem to be that much of a problem, at least docs don't think that it's too much of a hindrance of getting pg and carrying to term. Just wanted to share. Hope it keeps your hope up. Good luck ttc. Btw there were two friends of mine who found out they were expecting when I gave birth, so you can prepare for a Jan. bub, if you are not faster than me.

[Kats Playland]

Sorry to hear about your bfn. But I felt the same way when we tried for this baby... I didn't want to be pg during the summer & deal with the weather. My DD's bd is June 18, and the last 2 months killed me!! But after trying for so long I didn't really care anymore... The month or the sex. It's everyone's matter of choice so, good luck.