Hi,
I tend to bring up the past with my wife a lot, and I know I shouldn't but I cant stop it some times. We've had a checkered pass, and she was emotionally abusive when we're younger. After three years apart we got back together adn we told each other not bring up the past. Yet I did on more than one ocasion in retaliation. I know this is not healthy and is destroying ny marriage with the one I love. How can I let go of the hurtful past and move on?
JJ
