[fun2parent]

To start off I will say I have been married for 7 years we have 2 kids. I don't know if we have ever really been "in love" I felt pressured into marrying him - I know not an excuse. We sometimes fight, but mainly we just live like strangers, I have no friends any more because we can't ever go out with my friends, and he doesn't like it when I just go do something without him. He is a bit jelous. I have never cheated on him or would even think about it. Then I get a call from my ex - whom I was really in love with when we dated but when we went to college we broke up. I was at this point of wondering how long I can take living in a house with a stranger who doesn't respect me, cuts me down, and just makes me feel worthless. He has never abused me or anything like that. It's just hard when you hear from an ex that would love to e-mail you more and talk to you more. What to do?

[floresazules]

It sounds to me like you still have feelings for your ex boyfriend and trying to make excusess by saying how unhappy you are with your husband.
Sorry if I sound to hard, but I think you need to comunicate more with your hasband and tell how you feeling about the way he treat you. and also think about, you dont want to do something that you dont wish also your husband do to you. How will you like if him talking to his ex behind your back? and about your ex, is nothing wrong with talking to exess if is an honest frienship and you husband knows about it. Im good friends with my ex and my husband like him too as a friend, plus we have a Dauther in commun. I think you are confuses but before you do anything with your ex I advice you to try to spice things with your huband and if dosent work out, them before starting a new relationship, finish the other one.

Good luck and I wish you the best.

[mcmama]

Right. If you are unhappy in your marriage, don't jump into something else. Deal with what is going on in the marriage first. If you divorce, then once you are available it is nice to know that your first love is available too!