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I found out about 4 years ago that in the beginning of my marriage my husband had 2 affairs (we have been married 16 years). He said both of the affiairs lasted around 6 months. He thinks because it was so long ago I should "just get over it".
Even though its been 4 years since I found out, I still think about it alot. I am finding it hard to forget. I feel like our marriage bond is broke. Lately I have been not attacted to him and distant. He is not helping, he works long hours and I find it is better for me and the kids when he is not around. I am struggling with leaving him or waiting until one of my kids (we have 3 in school) is graduated, which will be in June of 2009.
Can anyone relate?