[willow1978]

Lo has been at nursery since 10 months now 2 years and has moved up rooms twice with no problems!!! until last week that it. He gets really upset now to the point he's struggling to catch a breath and this is making me feel such a terrible mum leaving him there!!! although as soon as i have gone the staff say he is fine and plays really well with the other kids. Any sugestions to how to help him be less unsettled in the morning?

[twinzplus3]

Are you exacerbating the problem by lingering? Separation anxiety is normal and goes through phases. If the staff tell you that he's fine and he stops crying, that is really probably what happens. So if you have nor eason to suspect there is another issue with why he might not like to go, you can safely assume this is normal. Tell him you love him, you'll come back for him and then be gone.