[LovingJesusinAZ]

I'll admit . . . I don't know exactly how long my cycle is supposed to be because due to horrible periods I've been on the pill pretty much since I got my period. Back in Oct 2005 (month before DS was conceived) my cycle was 26 days. In Nov 2005 I tested on day 26 and got a BFP.

This is my first month off the pill and now I'm on day 29 of my cycle with no af and BFN's. This AM when I woke up I had cramps, but no other signs of anything else. I tested yesterday and I am going to test again Friday (if I can wait that long) because that will be two weeks since we last BD'd.

I've checked ovulation calculators online I shouldn't have been ovulating when we last BD'd, but right now I'm confused. Even though I keep getting BFN's I'm going on the assumption I'm pg until af comes, just to be on the safe side.

I was telling DH last night that whether it's a BFP or af I want something to happen SOON!

Because you ladies are more knowledgeable about your bodies than I obviously am, I guess my question is--how long do I wait/keep testing before realizing that this isn't the month?