[GolfingWidower]

My 38-year-old daughter has been the joy of her late mother's and my lives. But when I told her I wanted to seek female companionship, she became furious. She feels I am betraying her mother, to whom I was happily married for 46 years. When I tell her I'm lonely, she says to find other fellows to bond with. She refuses to discuss it any further. Do other women in similar situations feel as she does? I really need to know. Thanks to all who respond.

[Alejandros Mommy]

Hello and Welcome

I am sure that your late wife would want you to be happy. I understand your daughters feelings esp if it hasn't been that long. But if it has it may be time to 'move' on with your life......and if you feel you are missing something from your life then go and find what you are missing. You deserve to be happy...your 38 yr old dd (daughter) should understand though time.

[QueenAngie]

Welcome to the board!

So glad you've joined.

I have read research articles where couples in very happy long term marriages, when one spouse passes one, the surviving spouse will usually marry in a shorter amount of time.

Sounds like you had a very happy marriage. What a shame that your daughter does not wish you to find another loving spouse.

Could you sit down with a 3rd party, like your minister along with you and your daughter, for a calm discussion?

I even know of several married women, who before their deaths, 'choose' their husband's next mate as a replacement.
The wives wanted their husbands to continue their days filled
with love and happiness.

Your own golden years should be filled with joy and happiness. Wishing you all the best in your search.