[ttfn32]

I have been married going on 5yrs now and i feel like everything's going down hill. We are more like room mates now than anything. Theres no affection, no sex, no real contact. There has been cheating on both sides and some abuse from him. We've tried marriage councling , couples get aways and nothing works and neither one of us is happy. I have now found someone that makes me very happy and wants to be with me. I want to separate but I have 2 small children involved and I don't want them to not have their father around. I don't know whether to stick it out with my husband for the children or leave for the sake of my happiness. please help any advice is appreciated