My best friend had two abortions with two different men. She has one son with her ex-husband who didn't want a 2nd child and said she should get rid of it. She did, and suffered because she loved to have it. (Not that her husband was the greatest, but she actually loves children and is good in educating them). Now her ex-husband (with big drinking problem) is becoming a father with another woman (herself unstable) and I really cannot imagine how she must feel about knowing. Her actual partner is kinda too old to become a dad a third time, so that was it about the 2nd abortion. I myself couldn't do it. The only reason I could was if it threatened my life if I had the baby because I have to care for my 2 boys and don't want them to grow up without a mom. If you want it, keep it. I'm sorry to say so, but you'll never know if he'll be around to help you get over the loss. And from personal experience I can tell you, it'll get hard.
Sorry, just now I read that he is warming up to it. Great.
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