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Well have you heard that sometimes your worst enemies are your own family? I think that first and formost you are taking steps in the right direction because you have chosen to move away with a sounds like great guy and began your life outside the womb. Maybe your mom needs a dose of reality which is that she may have no life other than you but your life has much meaning whether she agrees with it or not. I would suggest being honest and saying exactly how you trult feel and when she hangs up don't call her back. There has to be consequence for action and the accountability here seems to be nonexistent. people have to be held accountable for their actions and she isn't. It is very selfish for her to expect you to jeopardize your own life and happiness just to help keep her a little sane. lol. Be honest and let the rest happen as it should. I think that eventually, she will recognize that shes being moody, rude, overbearing, and a total control freak and that most people don't deal well with this. Hang in there.
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