[Magic_Mikki]

So this Sunday is Mother's Day. Last year we went to my sister in law's house (DH's sister) and she cooked a nice brunch for DH and I as well as their mom and dad (my in laws). This year, DH made reservations at a nice restaurant for us, and my sister in law is really mad because she wanted to have a brunch at her house again this year. We already told her that we were going to do something with just the four of us (DH, me, and two babes), and we also told his mom that. She keeps calling and texting us, begging for us to come over. I suggested that, since our reservations are at noon, perhaps DH and kids could go to her house for dinner (but I have to work, so I wouldn't be there). She doesn't like the idea because it's not the same as brunch. I think she thinks I'm being selfish because I won't let DH be with his mom on Mother's Day (which isn't the case, as DH made these reservations as a surprise to me). She won't leave us alone regarding this subject and I am going to punch her in the face! Ok, not really. But she knows exactly how to get me going, and she succeeds everytime. DH says that's why she's doing this! LoL! She is not a mother herself, and she cannot imagine why we don't want to spend Mother's Day at her house. She is incredibly self-centered.

Anyway, I just wanted to vent about it! I vent about it to DH but he is so nonchalant about everything and just tells me to ignore her. You bet. Anyway, thanks for listening!

[KR258]

I'm sorry you have to deal with that! My dh is 100% the same esp when I am frustrated! lol I wish I had good advice but I'm no good for good ideas anymore!!! I hope she gives you a little more breathing room.

[JeanLynn81]

She is overreacting. Do exactly what you want to do on YOUR day. And have a good time!

[Labhaoise]

Ditto to Jean- YOU are a Mum- and it's Mothers day. If she thinks that you're being selfish what is she?? Wanting to have brunch at her house again and only that is acceptable. SOunds like she needs to grow up a bit.
I hope that you have a lovely day no matter what you do

[abrahamalegre]

Yes, there's a reason it's Mother's Day. It's your day so enjoy your hubby's reservations for your special day

[Magic_Mikki]

Thanks everyone! We kept our reservations and are definately holding our ground. Today DH suggested we grill out at the park for dinner, and I said we should invite his sister to come along, and he said no way! All day yesterday and today she had been really annoying about Mother's Day he said and he doesn't want to deal with her till after Sunday! LoL! What a good man!

[MissyChrissy]

lol...I'd direct her to her brother & just wouldn't get into it with her about anything. That's what I found works best for me.

[NavGabeShiJude]

I am glad you stood your ground! Otherwise she might have been trying to direct your every move for the rest of you life! Seriously! My aunt used to do that with my mother, making my mother do the christmas and thanks giving dinner at my mom's house every year, just so she wouldn't get her house messed up.
If you don't let her get away with it, just do what you and your family wants or needs to do, then you are all happy and she will realize that she can't control those around her!