I am a 50 yr old male and have had this illness for 10 ys..started in 1996 but too 6 yrs and many tests to get diagnosed.So many different types of pain and hard to deal with. You lay down and it hurts..so sleeping is difficult..I have some arm weakness. but my legs are a real issue..
Cannot walk to far without having pain for days, and days..so i better not cross the line..I bought a Mobility scooter to make it easier when i go out but i am not out that much..I am a guy and Guys dont usually wonder the Malls...

. I have learnt the first thing you need to deal with is sleep..U must get atleast 4 hrs.. So you will also need to control the pain as good as you can.. There is no such things as pain free and functioning..If you are pain free then most likely you are over medicated. I take Oxycontin for pain along with Percocett for break through.
. Unforuantely Fibromyalgia is very under estimated by people and Doctors,.. In this age we look at people and if they look good then they must be good. I probably did this myself. This makes it hard for people to get proper pain medication.
I hear of a Lady that had terrible Fibro pain and her DR would not suggest anything stronger than Tylenol extra strength. She suffered and then got cancer..She said once she got cancer she was able to get any pain drug she wanted..But the pain hadn't changed at all only her label. I am lucky my Doctor believes in me and supports me..Its a long road with this illness and i am not the same person i was.
I take it a day at a time, and hope for the best. There are many web sights on here that support fibromyalgia..This one i go to regular.Some good information..hope you have a better day.
http://www.immunesupport.com