[Thegentleman]

My brother and my dad want me to give them money. I dont have a real job but i have a great internet job that no one knows about that pays good money enough to get a car and to get started in college. The dilemma here is that Im trying to go to college and prepare for my future, which at the moment looks a little blurry because of the situation Im in.

My dad gambles alot and has gotten himself in about $15,000 debt with the IRS. He wants me to get a job to help him pay it off (he doesn't know i have income). He used to make almost $100,000 dollars a year and his last job but got fired. He has a new job now but i dont know how much he makes with this new job. The thing about him is that he doesnt care about my future and has made it known he doesnt care. He just wants me to get a job so i can pay off his debt. There is so much about him that would turn you off , he is a liar, and he always talks behind everyone back. ALL THE TIME!!!!

My brother is 24 years old and isnt doing anything with his life. He doesnt want me to do anything with my life before he does, im guessing thats because I am younger than him and it would make him feel like a loser if i become successful before he does. [For Example]: He doesn't have a car, so if I buy one before him he will be very upset because i got one before him. I want to get a car because it will help me dramatically in life and i also will stop being dependent of my friends to get me places.So if i get a car my brother and my dad will get pissed.

These things arent even the tip of the iceberg when it comes to problems in my family.

I feel like everyon is keeping me from being successful in life for there own personal needs. Im a smart guy and im behind in life! All my friends I graduated with from high school are juniors in college and i havent even started yet. Its leaving a sour taste in my mouth towards my family. Everyone is obsessed with money except me, i just want to be successful in life. Do you think i should move out? I can do that if you think I should. My family does not care about my future. What should I do?

[lynclarke]

Get up, walk out the door, and keep on walking down the road to your life. If you are living in your dad's house then you have to pay rent, groceries, and be part of the household ie. do chores, speak respectfully, help make the house successful. If you your household is sick and you can not fix it, get out. Things will not change.