[quagmire8]

When I got pregnant, it was at the same time as a couple of people where I work. The last 7 months, I have constantly been reminded of milestones that I have missed due to the m/c. It is better now (and has been better in the last 2 months or so), than it was at first. Last week, the first of 4 coworkers that got pregnant right around the same time as me delivered her baby. We were all due within a few weeks of eachother. Another delivered a healthy baby boy this morning. I have been dreading this time since the m/c. I am handling it better than I thought I would, but I am still sad none the less. But I also feel conflicted. I am so happy that my coworkers have been able to deliver healthy, beautiful, perfect babies, and I am so sad that I could not. Just a couple of more weeks and everybody will have had their babies, and I am left with a little hole, a little empty feeling. My DH has been the best. So supportive and caring, and lets me cry whenever I want to and doesnt make me feel bad about it, but I dont want to keep going to him crying over this. Thanks for listening to me vent! Goodluck to all of you TTC!

[QueenAngie]

((((Hugs))))

[poliscmjr]

I can relate to what you're going thru. When I found I was pregnant I was the third in the family. Everyone was so excited that the babies would be so close in age. My sil is due in October, and my cousin is due in December and I was due in January. So come the end of the year it's going to be extremely hard for me.
I think the people on this board are extremely helpful in times like this for support and just for listening. If you need some one to talk to please pm me.

[quagmire8]

thanks for all of the support! the third of my coworkers just found out she will be induced sunday night and will probably deliver monday morning...which would have been my due date to be exact. she is such a good friend, and i am so excited for her, but when i am alone, i cant help but cry. i know i will feel better soon. i just hope i am strong enough to be a good friend, and i think that i am. i will be at work when she gets induced (i work in Neonatal ICU), so i will be there for her if she needs me. again, thanks so much of all of the kind thoughts and words...you guys are the best!

[MiaCamille]

Stay strong it will be your turn

[poliscmjr]

You can do this!! Everything will be ok.

[angelstarsmum]

stay strong and your turn will come,(((hugs))).x

[imnemtp]

I am sorry you are having to deal with this. I lost a baby in 1989 and it still hurts some times. I am now blessed to be the mother of a wonderful 20 year old daughter and a 16 year old son. God held me through all my pain and blessed me and my husband with these children. My sister struggled with infertility and two miscarriages, one of which happened while I was pregnant with my son. She now has two beautiful children. You are a good woman to be able to be happy for your friends. It takes a strong woman to encourage and celebrate with someone in the midst of your own pain. God will honor your strength and the strength of your husband. Please know that I will pray for you to be blessed and comforted. You will eventually be able to comfort others with the comfort you yourself received.

[quagmire8]

i cant even explain to you guys how much your words of comfort mean to me. thank you so much for the thoughts and prayers!

[2006Mama]

(((Hugs))) Some day it will be our turn . We just have to stick together .