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Old 03-27-2008, 12:57 AM
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Default First Loss..

Hi everyone. I just had my first loss. I began bleeding last night, and went to the hospital. That's when what I feared had been confirmed. They did an ultrasound, and there was nothing there. I was 7 weeks 1 day, and I lost my baby. I know its only a day, and I need to give myself some time.. But I was just hoping someone had some kind of words of encouragement for me.
I have two little boys that are 4 and 1, I am trying to stay strong for them, but this is so hard. From the second I found out I was pregnant I loved my baby.. I feel like this pain will never go away..
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Old 03-27-2008, 04:29 AM
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I am so sorry for your loss.
I too lost a baby after having two healthy pregnancies.
I had a m/c last August and I was 10w6d. I was devastated, and it still hurts.
Take time to grieve over this loss. The pain will never go away, but time will help ease it for you.
I bought an angel to hang on my rearview mirror as a rememberance of my little one. It helps me to know that he is with me at all times, where ever I go.
Maybe you could do something special to remember your baby?
We are all here for you, there are many ladies on this site who have been there and will have many more words to help.
((((((HUGS)))))))
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Old 03-27-2008, 06:14 AM
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so sorry for your loss. the pain doesnt ever go away, but every day it gets easier to deal with. some days are better than others. we are here if you need to talk/vent/cry/etc.
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Old 03-27-2008, 06:25 AM
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{{{{HUGS}}}}..I am so sorry for your loss....It is like Allison (quagmire) has said...it doesn't go away but it does get more manageable and doesn't stay raw forever....the next few days do what you can to take it easy and allow yourself the time to grieve and cry and vent etc...don't let others tell you you should get over it...they may not understand how much it really does hurt...Time is a great healer but you will not forget....I have had 2 m/c...one at almost 13 wks in 2007 and one at about 8 wks in 2007 also...Know that we are here for you and that many of us can relate to what you are going through and feeling right now and in the days to come...Sending you more {{{{HUGS}}}}
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Old 03-27-2008, 07:07 AM
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I am so sorry for your loss. 's
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Old 03-27-2008, 11:13 AM
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I am sorry for your loss. It is really a hard thing to go through. Prayers to you and yours. Take care. Lynne
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