[stephanienminnesota]

Sorry to vent again girls..I want to scream right now and he's in jail. You'd think I'd be ecstatic. Grrrr. So, I brought DS Jordan to school today & decided since G-ma had 2 younger boys for a lil bit I'd hang out with my cousin and get some stuff done. Well, I run to the college to get something and "Dixie" comes up to me and is acting all nice and friendly and thinks we're friends. Grrrr. I strongly dislike her for stealing DH (ex) away in the 1st place. I was like Get away from me now before I do something dumb that I'll regret. She was all like.. " Why'd Chris have to get arrested I was like Hello duh he hit me and I got a babe in there. She was like he only did that cause he loves and misses you and the boys I was seriously ready to over-react and go off deepend but instead went and had lunch and went shopping with my cousin who I swear if she wouldn't have been there I probably woulda been arrested for something dumb.

[1stTimeMomOf2]

I'm glad you didn't do anything dumb! You have to think of the bebe!! It sounds like she was a little stupid for approaching you in the first place, especially since she knew what happened. Why did she need to hear it from you?? I think maybe she was trying to start something and you did the best thing by just walking away! No worries about the venting... I understand why you'd need it right now!

[purelegance]

yea seems to me she was trying to get a rise out of you. you have absolutely been the bigger person in this

[Labhaoise]

well done for not reacting to her! You certainly are the bigger person. Anytime you need to, just vent away!

[QueenAngie]

Take care of yourself and your baby! You need to take the high road and ignore this girl.

Did you get the order of protection against your husband?

[bhoneycutt]

"He only hit you because he loves you and the boys?!?!?!" Is this girl crazy?! You need to steer clear of that fruitcake!

[monsterbab]

And the beauty of keeping your cool and not ov er-reacting is ... it will drive her nuts!

[DivasMomma]

I also applaud you for not doing anything...i have a bad temper and would have had a hard time keeping my cool as well

[stephanienminnesota]

Yes Angie I did. This girl has been a pain in the you know what for the past like 4-5 years. She is like one of the major reasons we split. I HATE her with a passion. I am thinking of moving out of state but I am unsure of where to move too. I was thinking of moving to either somewhere in WI b/c my family lives in MN and I'd still be kind of close to them. The other place I was thinking was TN. Somewhere around Nashville but then I know that I would'nt be able to see family as much as I wanted too. I am thinking if I move then I don't have to deal with him anymore and I'd never have to see her again either.