[Possibility_girl]

will, i have to wonder. because part of me is feeling like it isnt going to work. its been 4 months now. partley i dont want to feel like a fool again if he does it again. I dont want to feel like i am always wondering. its true though, at the beginning the feelings are aso raw and especialy with the children, it was about them. but now im starting to be aware of my feelings.

[Possibility_girl]

im not sure about the gym though, i know other married men who go to the gym, i do too and have made friends but thats it. he is a diabetic and it has been helping him. so , i dont know what do say about the gym,

[browneyes01]

I have never heard how cheating from a man perspective feels and that was so touching, and I guess whether your a man or a woman cheating hurst and trust is a hard thing to build back. I know for me when my ex cheated on me i never felt the same way about him i tried to get past the affair but I just couldn't and because i couldn't I started cheating on him we were together for 9 years 2 years into the relationship he cheated we decided to work it out but the following year after he cheated i started cheating and I cheated for 6 of the 9 years we were together and at first I didn't care and then it started to eat away at me and i ended our relationship because i started to feel real bad to this day he doesn't know that I cheated for so long but he did know about the affair I had I just got good at hiding it. we still speak to each other because we share a f yearold son together and my children from my previous relationship love him, as for me I lost the love when he cheated on me two years in to the relationship and never really got it back.