I can't tell you how long it's been going on, probably since I have been pregnant (i.e. tired, grumpy, etc...) but something has happened between my daughter and I. We just don't seem to have a relationship right now. It seems like everything I give her to eat, to wear, anything she just complains about it, and it feels like she is trying to hurt me on purpose. I know, she's five. I don't know what to do. Ever since she started going to school it just feels like she isn't the same kid. My husband says I need to get to know her again because she is changing quickly. I feel like I am the only one worrying about all the important stuff and my husband gets to be the fun parent

I don't know. I just know I'm tired of the guilt and the shame that I am feeling. What am I supposed to do to fix this?