[pinckle]

hi there,
Im nic,22 single parent to my little angel. and im 3 months pregnant and looking to give the baby up for adoption when its born.
I do not think my family will be supportive and im feeling quite alone!
I would love to find a suitable family for this baby but don't know where to start as I live in Ireland.
I'd love to hear from other people who gave up their child or any similar experience.

thankyou

[QueenAngie]

Welcome to the board!

I'm in the USA, so cannot give you specific information on what is available in Ireland for support. There must be some agencies
that will assist you.

What is nic, please?

Wishing you all the best with your future plans.

(((Hugs)))

[fostermommy]

Sending you my very best wishes and prayers for your strength as you make this tough, but brave, decision for you and your baby. I'm so sorry that you feel alone. You will find support here. Best wishes for a healthy pregnancy.

[swt1899]

I was actually adopted. My birthmom was 17 when she had me. I know it was a tough choice for her to make, but I know that she loved me so much that she wanted me to have a better life. And I grew up knowing this. My parents always reminded me of it. I met my birthmom when I was 22. I wanted to find her and show her my gratitude. We are great friends now and have been for nearly 7 years.
Are there adoption agencies in Ireland that might help you place your baby with a good family? That's what we have where I live. You aren't alone in this. If you want to talk, you can send me a private message on this site.
There are many couples who cannot have children and would love to open their home to a child. It's a very loving choice... both ends of the situation.
Prayers to you and I hope that you find families.com a place of support and care.

[Labhaoise]

Hi and welcome! I hope that you will find the support you need to get through this... you'll be in my prayers. Keep us updated!

PS- Angie I think that Nic is her name

[jd1331]

Nic,
I have just adopted a beautiful little boy and have done tons of research into international adoptions. I think the first thing you need to do is decide whether or not you would like your baby adopted by an Irish family or to do an international adoption. If you decided to do international, let me know I will be happy to send you the research and reviews of international agencies I have.
I'm sorry that you don't think your family will support your decision. I think you should look into finding a therapist in your area where you can go to talk through your decision without any worry about being judged or made to feel bad about your decision.
I want you to know that we had 1 failed match before we got our son, and when the birth mother changed her mind, it hurt, but we knew she was doing what was best for her and her child. It's a decision only you can make for yourself, but I'm here if you need someone to talk to. Email me if you want to jd1331@inbox.com

[Samual]

Hi Nic, I'm a social worker in England, so I may be able to answer some questions for you.

Frank.

[LoriSam7879]

Hello...
I imagine it must be difficult to make this decision and to tell your family. Do not feel guilty for making this decision. It shows incredible maturity and love for that baby. I agree, seeking out some therapy would be a good idea - you don't want to feel badly about making a good decision.
There is the option of having a local family adopt or going internationally. I know there are TONS of families here in the states who adopt internationally. You can always contact an adoption agency here in the US and see how they can help you.
Be strong!
Lori