Holding a grudge
I became friends with a girl - we had scrapbooking in common and our boyfriends were aquaintances. She was having a lot of various problems in her relationship. I listened without voicing my opinion for nearly 6 months. All she did was complain to me about him and problems she was having with her mother (her mother lives with her). Finally the boyfriend did a few things that I did not agree with - I was ONLY concerned for her and her child's well-being. I voiced my opinion because I didN'T feel she was seeing the whole picture and what truly was important (her child and herself). She got mad at me and has not spoken to me for about a month. I have apologized about 6 times or more and explained why I said what I said but not making excuses for it, via texting and email because I tried calling and she will not answer my calls. Its not like I harmed her, killed anyone or anything like that. I just voiced my opinion and she didn't like what she heard apparently. It was only my opinion and I told her that. Why can't she forgive me? Why complain to me for six months about all your problems and then not expect me to get involved....?
What more can I do???????
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