Hi - I quit ...hmmm let me think --- in 95. I had tried once before that but was under lots of stress - new job, end of relationship etc.. so bombed. Both times used the patch.
Second time and last time - psyched myself up for it. Had a mental picture of me NOT smoking. I picked up more exercise - particularly aerobic exercise. I stocked up on healthy foods - lots of carrots and celery to occupy my mouth and hands. Lollipops too! I also 'allowed' myself to gain a few pounds which I dealt with eventually
I told lots of people too -- more support and with more knowing you're trying to quit it's harder to fail too! I had to change many routines initially - no coffee in the am, no lingering meals (activities that would spark a nic. urge). I also did major cleaning -- cleaned out car, ashtray, clothes, etc.... and just wait -- after a few weeks you won't believe how much smokers reek of stinkola! And I bought nice hand cream and it didn't take long to notice my hands smelled nice (not to mention my nails lost that 'yellow hue' form smoking.
You CAN do it!!!!