[slygirrl]

I just got a text from my ex that he got the income withholding notice from his job.... um BIG PROBLEM..... he's not supposed to get it from his job he got one sent to his house!! They were supposed to send that copy to the company that owns us and does our payroll not HIM!! So now that he got the letter he's going to hold onto it so it doesn't go to the state and I'm still not going to get child support!!! Someone is going to get an earful from me in the morning!! I am FURIOUS!!! Can he even legally hold onto that letter?!

[Samual]

Is the letter in his name? If so it is his letter.

[slygirrl]

No it's technically not "his letter" it's an income withholding that was addressed to the company but it doesn't matter. What he got was something from corporate based on the envelope it was received in. They didn't do this last time I had an income withholding on him, but this time they told him (like he couldn't figure it out from the letter that was sent to his house) So hopefully this Friday the money starts coming out cause that envelope he received it in was from payroll. I just called my main office and talked to someone there about the whole thing and they said it came from our parent company....

[mcmama]

Please let your attorney handle this.

He is in contempt.

Have your attorney file a motion compelling him to turn over the records. And also, compelling him to pay your legal bills for that motion because he is in contempt. He is acting in what is called "bad faith".

Stop talking to him, his employer, etc. The employer cannot help you. And it actually plays right into his hands, of portraying you as the evil b*tch.

Just stop talking to him and turn EVERYTHING over to your attorney. Since he insists on being pro se, as an abusive tactic, let him pay for what his shenanigans are costing you. Let him feel the full brunt of choosing to not have an attorney and forcing you to have one that works double time.

Sam, it's definitely not "his" letter. It is "theirs". They are still married, getting divorced, and Andrea is trying to get her lousy wife beating husband to pay child support instead of blowing all his money on booze and broads.

And any girlfriend of the abuser who is reading this - consider your future being told right here.

Andrea, stop talking to him. He loves it.

[ccoconutt3]

sounds obvious- but have them send a certified letter to the right place.