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Old 11-29-2007, 09:46 AM
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Default Husband made a HUGE mistake

My husband never wished me a happy birthday today...he forgets every year... then he blames it on me...like this year he forgot because we made plans to go out friday night, so he asssumed it was friday not today...how can i make him understand that he makes me so sad when he forgets dates like this??
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Old 11-29-2007, 10:09 AM
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My dh royally screws up birthdays. . .forgetting a b-day pales in comparison to the things my dh has done. One year we had a heart to heart. Turns out he's just crazy about me but can't for the life of him keep things straight. It's not personal. . . So I leave hints. Some of them are horribly obvious (Like the LL bean catalog left open on a closed toilet seat with a sticky attached saying "This is what I want for my birthday.")

But the point is, sometimes men need a little help and communicating what would make you feel loved and appreciated doesn't diminish the celebration. . .just makes it more enjoyable IMO. (I have to say though that if dh ever completely forgot the anniversary, he'd be in trouble.)
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Old 11-29-2007, 10:25 AM
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haha i need to start leaving hints like that!
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Old 11-29-2007, 10:41 AM
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Oh and Happy Birthday!!!
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Old 11-29-2007, 10:42 AM
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hahahaha ty very much
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Old 11-29-2007, 10:59 AM
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Happy Birthday!!
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Old 11-29-2007, 10:59 AM
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Happy Birthday!! Hints are always a good thing!
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Old 11-29-2007, 12:53 PM
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Happy Birthday!

My DH forgets every year as well. After 13 years I got immune to it
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Old 11-29-2007, 01:39 PM
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Happy Birthday!! Leave sticky notes all over the place..."5 more sleeps and it's my birthday!!"; "I really hope to ___________________ on my birthday..which is only 2 days away!!"...etc....Hope he "remembers" next year all by "his own self"!! ...Have a good day!!!
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Old 11-29-2007, 01:40 PM
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hahahah like these ideas thanks guys you all cheered me up today
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