[Janetxl]

My partner cannot keep a conversation without blowing up! I can't say anything to him without him turning things around and making everything seem like its my fault. He even resorts to name calling which I do not like and then I get really mad and I get physical. i warn him not to call me names and to lower his voice but he keeps egging me on and I don't know how to cope besides getting physical. I just want to communicate without him getting stupid. Why can't he just see my point at all??? I get so upset when I reach that point, because I don't want to. I can't stand it anymore and I don't know what to do. We keep moving past it but it keeps happening over and over. When we are happy we are really really happy. And we are really great together when we don;t have to talk about stressful things. Most people say we are the best couple and the most fun, but then when we fight watch out! He is the greatest most caring guy and only his mother and his sister and I get him to act like such a ***! I think he knows he can treat us however and we will always forgive him because majority of the time he is so great and kind and sweet and funnie.... I don't know what to do.