[lovonder]

My husband does not touch me anymore, sinds we had our last child who is now almost three years old. we have a buisiness a restaurant and he is out working till 3 in the morning. when I talk about it he says that he never get to rest and that he is tired all the time. he is a loving caring man and father he kissis me and hugs me but it seems like sex is to mutch for him.he is almost 50 now.

[Alejandros Mommy]

Can it be that he has a med problem? Esp with all the stress and long hours.

[lovonder]

Originally Posted by Alejandros Mommy

Can it be that he has a med problem? Esp with all the stress and long hours.

I know he has no med problem because we talk about everything

[mcmama]

What does he say is the problem?

[QueenAngie]

Welcome to the board!

Maybe its time he went in for a yearly physical, just to make certain he is healthy.

Then, may suggestion is a week-long 2nd honeymoon with no work, no kids, just the two of you.

(((Hugs)))

[MiaCamille]

Have you tried consulting together?

[lovonder]

aybe its time he went in for a yearly physical, just to make certain he is healthy.

Then, may suggestion is a week-long 2nd honeymoon with no work, no kids, just the two of you.

(((Hugs)))[/quote]
I will never leave my children with anyone so thats my problem.

[lovonder]

Originally Posted by MiaCamille

Have you tried consulting together?

my husband is not willing to talk to someone because he says that there's nothing wrong he yust need to sell the restaurant and then when he gets to sleep at aregular basis he'll be able to have sex again.BUT,there is something wrong with me i ned sex and soon or i will explode HELP

[MiaCamille]

maybe if you tell him that you would be consulting for both of you and not put the blame all on him? i know that sometimes we go through periods in our lives where just don't feel like having sex, i've been there after my third was born and DH was there a couple of months ago but things got back to normal now, could be just a phase like he says..

[MJ7]

If your dh isn't getting proper sleep or working backwards hours there could be a legitamate problem. My dh worked graveyard and didn't get enough sleep. Sex was the last thing on his mind. We found too he was depressed. He actually discovered it when taking a psychology class after the fact. He was also isolated at his job, but anyway, the sleep facter was a part of the issue and men often show signs of depression very different from women. Men tend to be moody (at least my dh was). He visited our dr. and she put him on some meds, he got a shift change which allowed for more sleep and he's normal now. Not suggesting for certain this is your dh's issue, just a thought though.