[idiotguy78]

I am 31 years old and have 4 kids and a step son, been with my girlfriend since i was 16 i am 31 now and have taken trust away from my spouse and ill tell you why.

I took out a girl for coffee and talked on the phone with her for a while and my gf found out and told me she cant get over it. I wished never did it in the first place. I know that she has a right to be mad at me but what can i do to gain her trust back again. I did not normally do something like this and she asked me still if we were intimate, but no we wern't i feel horrible and need to know what i can do to let her that she can trust me again, i feel bad everyday that she brings it up. I do not know what to say to her.

[Luciajam]

You can write a card to your gf, ask her why she think that,tell her you are sad.Apologize to her because you make her angry,but do remember to tell her you and the girl are just normal friends! If you apologize to much, she may think that you must have done something wrong.Live the life you live before,don't care too much,also care for your gf, spend more time with her.I'm afraid the reason she think like this is because you spend less time with her and care less about her.
Hope i can help you,hope you and your gf will be OK

[idiotguy78]

thanks for the advice i will use it.
matt

[Luciajam]

You r welcome

[Luciajam]

What about you and your gf? Sorry to ask too much, but I just hope you're ok now

[marriagetherapists]

You should explain everything to your girl friend once and then give her time to be relaxed. She will definitely think about you and will try to know more about that girl.So give her time and everything will be all right.

[internetsurf2009]

Hi, first off, I can understand how your situation might have
got out of control. The biggest key in a relationship is to
establish trust. How has your trust been with your gf
in the past?

If you can prove to her that she can trust you, even
when she is not around, this little predicament you
have found yourself will be as if it never happened.