[KR258]

We have a daughter who is 1 and we lost a baby at 21 weeks, May 1st. I was going back and forth about when we were going to try again...we previously decided to wait until the spring to conceive but my hubby said we can try again whenever I decide I am ready. I am worried about money although I know for the first year or so it shouldn't be a problem (unless its a boy cause then we'd need clothes) but I donno bout when they get older (and need things for school). We don't make much money and I want the best for them (like most mommies) ANYWAY...I don't want to wait anymore and I want to start now. I still have birth control in my system and I donno when we'd be able to but should we go ahead and try again or wait like the original plan? I don't know what is best...I only know what I want.

[KR258]

I forgot to add that I can't get pregnant yet also because I have to get surgery done to have my gallbladder taken out but once I recover from that the birth control should be out of my system. I have the surgery on the 25th

[quagmire8]

people have had kids in worse situations and the kids are fine. my cousin and her husband had their two kids in the most difficult time of their life. it was hard, and they really pinched pennies, but with the love in that house the kids didnt know the difference. the choice to have another is up to you, but just remember that it all works out in the end!

[amholb0]

It's so scary to think of how much money babies can cost. My DH and I will be TTC soon, we both in enter level jobs and have lots of school debt but, I think if you wait until the perfect time or when you have enough money you'll never have another. It's a hard decision and no one can make it for you. The others are right though, people have babies in really tight situations and make it through. Good luck with your surgery and I hope you heal quickly. Whatever you decide, it will be the right for your family. By the way, your little girl is adorable!

[KR258]

Sort of different subject but still need opinions soooo...My bb's are leaking. I took a pregnancy test it was neg. So why am I leaking?? Is that normal?