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Old 06-04-2008, 03:14 PM
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Default i still carry my 15 year old sister

Is that OK? I think it brings us closer to gether but a lot of people have said she is too old.

this is me carrying her into the house at our family party a week ago.



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Old 06-04-2008, 03:50 PM
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why do you carry her?
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Old 06-04-2008, 04:05 PM
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i like to baby her sometimes and she doesnt mind.

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Old 06-04-2008, 04:30 PM
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Welcome to the board!

Aren't there other ways to be closer to your sis?
Doing each other's hair,
fingernail care,
a backrub?

You are both really cute, but I'm afraid one of you
will fall and get injured. That would be no fun at all.

So glad that you have a sis you love!
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Old 06-04-2008, 04:39 PM
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are you much older then she is?
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Old 06-04-2008, 04:49 PM
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personnaly i think that's a bit weird but hey if you both like it....
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Old 06-04-2008, 06:11 PM
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ya im 24.

why is it weird? that's what i don't understand why people think that.

and we do those things already. i just still love to hold her and carry her because she's my baby sister.
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Old 06-04-2008, 06:13 PM
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whatever u like to do then thats you decision...

i have an 18 yr old sister (im 23) and I would NEVER carry her anywhere! once again, my decieion tho (Not to mention shes twice the size of me!!)

I agree that i would be careful tho--one of you guys could really get hurt, esp you and your back!
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Old 06-04-2008, 07:25 PM
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IMO, it's weird & it kinda prevents her from growing up. she's 15, in 3 years she'll be an adult "officially".
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Old 06-04-2008, 09:22 PM
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I think that people would find it weird because at 15, a person is usually wanting to do things for themselves, and as they are capable of doing many things (like walking, cooking etc) they do them. Generally carrying people is associated with young children, eg under 10yrs old. I have to say that you do seem to be somewhat awkward in the picture. And you or your sister oculd get hurt at any time.
Is it not awkward to be carrying some one so large? By large I do not mean overweight, I just mean that she is bigger than a 4 year old; longer arms and legs. I agree with Angie, when she said there are other things that you could do together to keep close if this is becoming a big issue for you both. I hope you are comfortable with whatever you decide to do.
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