[jmmv08]

I guess it all depends on the person. For me, I waited until I was married and no regrets. I would prefer for my kids to be married first.

[browneyes01]

i think that if you are emotionallt rady to have sex then you should, but I also believe that 13,14, and 15 are too young but girls/boys have sex at this age. so who to say.

[Goddard]

You seem to be a young and smart man. It is never too late to begin and grow. I am sure you will be able to groom yourself the way you want to. Dating Books is a very good site which will guide you in the right direction. It will help you to enrich your personality and at the same time will tell you how you can get alongwith girls.

[Cristina P.]

Sex is more than just physical contact. And sex changes over the time. It chabges the way you relate to the sexual act of being one person. My very first time was very early and of course I wasn't married. I couldn't do better than this, I strongly think that when you have sex before marriage you get to know yourself better and know what to expect from the future experiences. When you have only one man, and expect to have that man only, you do a big mistake. We are not meant to be just with one person and with that person only. That's why men (especially men) commit adultery. And women are hard to understand why. Of course, you can keep a man even one life for yourself, but you got to learn how to do it, you have to learn to be a (totaly) different person every single day. You have to be a mistress and a good wife. A mother, but also a lady. All in one and all differently all the time. Otherwise, you'll gonna lose him. This is also true for women, they want their husbands to be gentle, nice, act romantic and so on....but admit it, you want him to make you feel you're alive, to come with new destinations for your new holiday (for example) or what to shop next time(that would be great, isn't it?). They want their husbands to get involved.
So be prepared to have more before marriage in order to have a happy one after all.

[LeanyBean]

Cristina, I think you've been rather jaded when it comes to sex and relationships.

[Cristina P.]

I don't think so, but maybe my words were to straight to be interpreted otherwise. And maybe we were taught to just simply grow, go to college, get married, have kids.....but when in our lifes comes something out of the ordinary we get scary and run from that thing.