[cappaberra]

I am a single mom of a 3 yr old and I am having some trouble letting my fiance 'in' to our life. Has anyone else had this problem? I've known my fiance for 5 months (I know, not long), but he is everything a man should be, and we are so great together. I adore him, he adores me, but I am weirded out by him calling my son 'his' son (when my son's bio dad is still very much involved - which fiance doesn't love). He also wanted my son to call him 'dad,' but I told him I thought it was disrespectful of bio dad and confusing for my son. I practice attachment parenting and feel I have a very strong bond with my son, and I get almost possessive of my son around fiance. why am I reacting this way? Is it at all normal? Please help me understand what I 'm feeling!