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Old 07-24-2009, 09:31 PM
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Angry I'm going to CHOKE HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I want to SCREAM right now!!! Errrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!


I am sooooo sick and tired of my mothers husband. I want to kick him in the head!! He JUST started going to church like a month ago and keeps preaching to me. Like I freaking need to be preached to! I'm more religious then he will EVER be! It makes me sick that he sits there judging others when he does drugs, drinks, smokes like crazy and oh yeah left his first wife with 8 kids by herself. Then when she asked him for help he told her to give them up for adoption. He beats my mother and talks to her like she is trash yet he judges me for reading the Twilight books and says the movie is DEMONIC? WTF is wrong with him! I could seriously punch him right now I am so mad! His whole religion is based on the bible and last I checked the bible says not to judge others yet he judges EVERYONE! He hasn't even read the books or seen the movie but assumes it is "demonic".

I am really sorry to anyone on my facebook page that has to put up with his crap comments. Please ignore the jackA** who doesn't know his head from his own butt!

To top it all off we have a family function tomorrow and he's going to be there...of course drinking I'm sure. It just makes me sick that people like him can judge others and act like their past doesnt exist. God will judge you for your whole life in the end and not just the last few months you became some type of "follower".
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Old 07-25-2009, 02:05 AM
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When people are being really really horrible, I find the best thing to do is to be disgustingly nice to them, that way you aren't adding fuel to the fire and it will **** him off plenty.
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Old 07-25-2009, 02:27 AM
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Jen, you can block him from appearing on your facebook page. I have friends on facebook who are still my friends, but their comments are inappropriate, so I block them from appearing.

If you want to friend me on FB, go ahead. I certainly have a few choice words for folks like this, and can turn this limited understanding of the bible on its ear.

Hard to read the bible when you only use if for thumping others.

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Old 07-25-2009, 05:35 AM
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I read some of his comments Jen and he really did appear to have his head stuck up somewhere. Never mind you gave him what for! Go Jen!
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Old 07-25-2009, 07:34 PM
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i couldn't even stand to read more than half of any of his comments. i think i stopped after the 2nd one. there's just no rationalizing with people like that. the best thing to do is to cut as many ties as possible. i know it's hard because he's your stepdad, but he LOVES that you fire back, which makes you a lovely target. remove him from facebook, and try to limit any conversation with him.
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Old 07-25-2009, 08:35 PM
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lol Thanks Jo!

Janet- I thought I already had you on my facebook....darn preggy brain lol but I will be sure to add you.

I did delete him but of course if he really wanted to make me mad he would just use my mom's account but I'm sure he knows better then that.

Amber- I have NEVER thought of him as my "stepdad" he has always been my mother's husband. I was 20 and 3 months from being married myself when my mom married him. Out of the 5 of us only my youngest sister (almost 5) is his. So none of us except her call him "Dad". He has always found a reason to fight with me about stuff. I'm just mad that now he is using God as his weapon to argue with me and trust me ignoring him only makes it worse b/c then he assumes he is right and will go on and on about it.

We had are family get together today. It's the first time the WHOLE family (over 100 of us) have been together in 3 years. After they left a lot of the family was making comments about how he was going on and on about God this and that. I think everyone was annoyed. Dont get me wrong I have no problems with other peoples religions but I dont like it when people shove it down my throat. I actually find other religions interesting. I'm Catholic and that is what I WANT to be. So it just makes me mad that he is always saying how I need to go to his church....I have my own freaking church thank you very much!

I guess what really makes no sense to me is that my mom became Catholic in her late 20's and ALL of her kids are Catholic. The youngest is even Dh and my Goddaughter. I was rasied by a strict Catholic grandmother and Dh is catholic as well. Nevy was baptized Catholic and so will the Twins. So it's like how does she not understand my religion and what I believe when she once was Catholic? It's like her church brain washed her or something! It's just sick! I told my mother today that I will NOT discuss religion with her anymore and to please stop posting stuff like that on my page. As for her "husband" I've deleted him and in the future I wont have much to say to him anymore.
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