[vgfischer]

As an incest survivor, I understand how hard it may be for you to support her decision, and yet, I truly understand her decision. I have forgiven my father and my step-father. I have even forgiven my mother for doing nothing. I understand today that they were all very sick, and for the most part, still are. I choose today to not put myself in danger, and to not allow my children to be placed in danger, but I do continue to have a relationship, as I have healed from the anger. I wish you all the best in your journey together. It seems you have an amazing partner, and you seem very caring and loving of her.