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Old 12-01-2008, 10:02 AM
KYGUY
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Unhappy Jealous of past!?

I really hope I've come to the right place to share my experience. I am seeing someone that I care very much about. She's been divorced for 4 yrs. and I've been divorced for 2. She moved from the house she and her husband had together to another location and didn't have a lot of room. I offered to let her store her things in my building, which she did. About 3 mos. later, I was moving boxes around and came across a tub marked "Wedding Pictures". Since I really had never seen her ex, I opened it. Yea, I know...shame on me. It was a gross invasion of privacy that I am not proud of. Well, not only did I get wedding pics, I got every birthday, anniversary, valentines, etc. card that they had sent each other for the past 12 years. I'm not sure if you can imagine the pain of reading their feelings for one another. And I read every one! Well, this jealousy of the past is killing me. I dwell on it for days. We've discussed it and she has been very understanding and feels guilty for bringing them into my building in the first place. She just wants me to get over it and I'm having a very difficult time with it. We are very much in love and she has no feelings for her ex whatsoever. How do I move on!!!???
 

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