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Old 03-08-2008, 07:50 PM
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Default Lets talk about sleeping schedules

Keeping a sleeping schedule is tough for a mom who shares her room with the baby. Especially when said mom is going through a serious bout of insomnia!

If my DD wakes up in the middle of the night, looks over, and I'm up...well its time for her to get up then! I am having the hardest time keeping her schedule straight. Between this, and the insomnia (and other problems I could write a book about)...well I'm about at the end of my rope!

I'm to the point where I'm thinking "Well if I just put a whole in the wall there, I could drag the cable and computer cords into the laundry room, and just sit on the dryer typing away..."

So I try leaving the room at night, and then she opens her eyes, sees I'm not there, and freaks out. I always hear all these great things about co-sleeping...but doesn't the mom have to actually keep the same sleeping schedule as baby for this to work? Don't answer that, I know...

I DO NOT want to take sleeping pills. I'm looking into natural remedies. I have an appt with my doctor to switch my nerve pills, and maybe see if stress is a factor. I think it may be. I have too much to do, and not enough time to do it!

I just really don't want DD developing unhealthy sleeping habits because of me. A baby her age should be sleeping 14 hours a day. 11 straight for nighttime. (that's what my ped says) I'm lucky to get her to sleep 6 hours straight at night. Then she does two naps. Her total sleep time is around 9 hours in spurts. Is this extremely not normal? Is she just following my lead?
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Old 03-08-2008, 08:25 PM
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I understand Jean....Alejandro and I shared the same room for 1 1/2 years. I ended up sleeping in the living room and letting him have the bedroom...my place only had one bedroom.

You could try one of those screen dividers...it'll give you space and her as well. Sorry I'm not much help...I ended up moving to a 2 bedroom apt when Michael moved in.
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