An 11 year old is in like 6th grade. Elementary school. A 19 year old is done with high school. She's a baby, he's a man (by do I use that word loosely). Most 19 year olds are into computers, into cars, not into 11 year old children

Most 19 year olds find 11 year olds quite annoying.
With both of my girls, when they've talked about boys, I wanted them to hang out with boys their own age. As freshman in high school, going out with senior boys just wasn't ok. A 13/14 year old does not belong in the same group as an 18/19 year old. So, it puzzles me beyond belief how this mom of the 11 year old thought it was all ok
