just been to court today for case managment confrence and found out my kids are being adopted come october finding it really hard to come to terms with. i know its whats best for them but its still hard i really love them and want to do right by them but it hurts, my family are being as supportive as they can but its just not enopugh. i really dont know what to do. can anyone help or offer me some advice.
I'm so sorry as I can only imagine how incredibly difficult this must be for you. You are in my prayers. Will you be able to have any type of open adoption?
I have a little boy who is 2 yrs 2 month and a little girl who is 11 month she will be a yr old on 7th october I dont really have a choice in the matter anymore so no matter what I decide they will be adopted. They were taken into foster care because of personal problems at home it was not my decision. and it is very unlikely that there will be any kind of open adoption other than letters and cards once a year.
Is it too personal to say why they were taken away? I don't mean to dig and I apologize if it's offensive.
(HUGS) to you I don't know what i'd do without my babies, they are the loves of my life.
I apologize for what you are going through. All I can say really is that they will be taken care of and loved and I know that it's not really that comforting because you're not the one doing it. As you said, it was for the best that they are being adopted. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
I have worked with foster parents. You should be given time to fix the problem, then be re-evaluated. They cant just take your kids and give them to another family to adopt. Adoption through foster care takes a year or longer, because the parents are given time to change their life for the better. If you feel you were not given this time, then fight it!! Im sorry you are going through this. Its not easy for anybody!!