[cristie_gce]

Originally Posted by MommyDee

Jen, you honor your daughter beautifully with the way you have told your story. Take the time you need to grieve, and hopefully soon, when you're ready, you will have a brother or sister to Annabelle to help ease your loss. You'll always have an angel on your shoulder and you will see her again. God Bless.

I agree. You have captured your grief with your writing, and that will be a very important part of your healing. Don't let anyone rush you to "snap out of it." You take as long as you need and remember your beautiful baby girl. I am so sorry, so sorry.

[selfhelpqueen]

I am so touched that you would share something so personal with us. I am so sorry that you have had to go through this loss, this way. You touched me to the very core and I thank you for that. May your heart be comforted and may you have the time and space that you need to grieve is my prayer for you.

[Alison22]

I wish I had something to say that would take your pain away. I can't even begin to imagine how painful an experience that was. Grief is a hard thing to deal with. I lost my husband and it comes in waves and nobody can expect you to snap out of it. You'll work your way through it. ((HUGS))

[angelstarsmum]

im so sad reading your story through my tears, i do know how you feel as i lost triplets at 19w Elzabeth,Callum and Annabell it is totally crushing, but in time you will be able to do something like plant a rose bush or something else special to the both of you and you will in time think that this devastaing experience and will be able to talk without crying.good luck to you both. PM if you need to.sarah

[quagmire8]

I read your story earlier today and was brought to tears. I thought about what to post, but could not think of anything comforting to say. Been thinking about it all day, and all I can say is that I am so sorry you have to go through this. People dont always know what to say in times like this so they go for the "you can have others" and "it is better off", but we all know that those things dont help, and at this time it is irrelivant to you. Your Annabelle is so precious to you and you will always be her mommy. Take your time grieving, never feel guilty for being angry, and you and your partner support and love each other. Again, very sorry for your loss. (((hugs)))

[juicymom8]

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your Annabel. You are so lucky to have such a supportive husband. You, your family and Annabel are in my thoughts and prayers.
Mimi

[Linas31]

im so sorry. some of your story sounds a lot like my experience, giving my baby back and leaving the hospital empty handed was the hardest thing I have ever done. I am so sorry, please know that there are others that share your sadness, anger, guilt, questions...and whatever else you may feel on any given day...

[KR258]

Your story touched my heart. I feel the exact way you worded it. I knew other people went through the same thing but I still felt like I was alone. I cannot stop the urge to go to the hospital and demand for them to give me back my child. I know it is irrational because he is no longer alive but I cannot stop those feelings. It's like someone stole your baby and you cannot get them back. I do not know if there are words to comfort but know that you're not alone. I hope time can heal us.