[emilytx47]

Well let me say sorry if this is too long. I met a wonderful man and we are engaged to be married in Jan. of 2009. We have really only been togather about 5 months, but to me if you love them time dont matter. The problem I am having is he stays at my house most of the time with me and my kids. He has a 13 yr old daughter and a 22 yr old son that I have yet to meet. All he keeps saying is in time, or when the kids get ready to meet me. When he has his daughter he goes and stays at his apartment all weekend, but the rest of the time he stays with me and my kids, all week, all weekend. Problem #2, we made a deal that we wouldnt talk about our past/ exs because its best that way ( his idea when we met) which was ok with me. Well thats all he does. I have been divorced over 8 yrs, he has only been divorced he told me 6 months, but i found papers where it was just last month he talks like he hates her guts, but the other day he made a comment it was her birthday, and things like he remembers things they use to do, there are songs that will come on the radio and you can see it in his face the hurt or anger and he changes the station, i think he still loves her, but he wont admit it. My thing is why wont he push a little in me meeting his kids if we are gonna be married in Jan ? He only gets his daughter 1 time a month, thats not much time for me to get to know her before this special day, sometimes i think he is stalling on something. Anyone with any advice help please cause i am lost on all this. Thank You !!!!!!!