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He's very hurt, she was his life for 23 years. Since he didn't go out for a year and half shows that he was definiatly hurt, and did wrong. But he has no excuse to come up in your life, with your children, while he is still hurting over his ex. I'm agreeing with you hun, you and your kids deserve better. Sounds to me that his kids are still wanting mommy and daddy back together. If that's the case, they'll never be ready, I remember when my daddy got a new girlfriend when I was young, I despised that women. Not because she was a bad person, just because it showed me, daddy and mommy would never be. I knew they weren't ever getting back together, but the possibilty gave me hope.
Have you brought anymore of this up to him? If you do, and he gets mad, just leave. He won't know what to do. Just grab your kids and take them to the park or something, for a little bit. When you come back ask him if he's calm and ready to talk. I'm sorry you're going through all this.
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