[mumi_mckay]

marriage isnt ment to be easy but its ment to be a partnership with some one that loves and cares about you. it just sucks when your husband is so ready to sit there and tell you whats wrong with you and what you do wrong in the relationship but as soon as some one else tries to tell him what he needs to do its suddenly " nope not listening this is bs, your the one with problems not me". im not perfect and yes things in my past have affected me and the way i handle and deal with relationships but when your husband continuously asks you questions he knows the answer to to see if you'll give him the right answer and if you dont then your a liar. plus the fact that if he thinks something / someone is bad, wrong, silly, already fine, not needing to be fixed, needs fixing etc.. and you dont agree or have a different opinion i am the one who has no morals, untrustworthy, lying, deceitful, just a female, knows nothing, doesnt work, lazy. its just so hard to show any respect and love towards him. staying together just seems impossible but then our son grows up in a broken home and its my child hood all over again. you just cant win..
anyways thats my vent i feel much better now.. thanks