[erinellakal]

I posted this in the new born section but then thought it turned more into a vent! So if a mod. wants to delete my other one thats fine. thanks.

Ok ladies, i have a question for you all.
When your babies were new born were you strict about people not coming to visit if someone had a cold?

The reason i ask is my sil had a baby a week ago. We were going to go visit today but she wouldn't let us cuz Kal has a cough. So we sent my daughter, Erin, with my fil/mil so she could at least see the baby,.They wouldn't let Erin hold the baby cuz Kal has a cough! She was soooo sad! It brings tears to me eyes for her cuz she was so looking forward to holding her........it really pisses me off!
My fil said before he picked the baby up today the new mom pracctically screamed at him and threw a bottle of hand sanitizer at him!

Am i wrong for getting pissed off and thinking that is completly rediculous?

When my kids were newborns I would never tell anyone that can't come over or that they can't hold my baby!

I am so frustrated I don't even want to go see the new baby........i feel bad for feeling that way, but i don't want to walk on eggshells and feel like my kids can't touch or look at the baby! gggggggggrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!