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My recently wedded husband seems to have issues with my son, right after we where married.

His kids, a boy that is 6 years of age, a girl 8 years of age, and his oldest daughter 17 years of age. The oldest daughter has been in trouble with the law, uses foul language, smokes, and never agrees with her father to help around the house. The younger boy, tends to get in trouble at school and does not listen to father or teachers. The mother has not been a part of their life for two years, had seen many women come and go in their father's life.
My son is 19, going into the Air Force. Quiet, respectful and keeps to himself. However, my son can be lazy and does not respond to my husband's orders at that given time. He has been corrected by me, now he does what is stated and stays in his room having no life with us he walks around in fear while he waits to leave for the miltary.
My husband stated he hated my son, and does not care about his life. In addition, my husband stated he could not store his belongings in the house that I had prior to the marriage.
The wedding was paid for using my savings account, and my credit. Along with the fact, I had to withdraw from my 401k to pay for my surgery.
My husband convince me to quit my job to stay home and so called focus on my college, along with taking care of his children. In addition, we began a company together, in my name due to his recent bankruptcy issues.
I have never stated anything negative about where the money came from, nor did I ever state anything about his bankruptcy. Just the fact we need to pay the bills due to my credit score dropping. My husband on the other hand, has stated many insults regarding me not doing things as ask, and has nagged me to come help him in his work a week after my surgery (I am suppose to wait until the three week order from the doctor, and my husband agreed).