[leahnae]

[FONT='Book Antiqua','serif']I'm at a loss. I'm 26 years old and married to a 28 year old man for less than 2 months now. We're both young and very good looking so....why aren't we having sex! The sex started to dwindle about 6 months before we got married but when we did have sex it was still amazing. Then amazing turned into great which turned into good which turned into me making mental shopping lists in the middle of the deed. At least then it seemed like it was still good to him so I could deal with not being completely satisfied. But now...it honestly seems like he is not physically attracted to me. And I know this sounds conceited but there aren't many men who wouldn't find me physically attractive. Especially when I'm lying naked in bed! I've tried to talk to him about this but he says he's tired. The same man who just last year used to work 10 hours then drive to my house across town and make love to me every night. He doesn't want to go to counseling. I of course think he's cheating which I can't understand either since he'd be hard pressed to find my match and, oh yeah, why marry me if he wanted to do other people! I do all those things that good girls aren't supposed to talk about so please someone tell me why he's not into it anymore. He's just clocked out of this relationship. Before when he pulled away from everything else we still had great sex. Now we don't even have that. I don't believe in divorce so now I just feel trapped and alone. Advice from anyone who has been down this road would be welcome...[/font]