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Old 02-14-2009, 03:59 PM
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When my 13 year old son was your daughter's age, he had a few OCD tendencies, mainly hand-washing. He was later diagnosed with Asperger's and Bi-polar.

I firmly believe these neoroligical tendencies and diseases such as ADHD, Bi-Polar, depression, etc. are all loosely related. Something in the brain goes 'awry'. I am glad she has evaluations done so often. They should be able to help you come up with a behavioral plan, to "re-teach" her behaviors. It is hard and difficult, but with CONSISTANTSY, these behaviors can get better. The earleir you start this re-teaching, the better. Group therapy or support groups may also be beneficial.

You say how do you get through those difficult days... rememebr that all above all else,what a blessing she is. Focus on her strong points - her sense of humor, her lovableness, her laughter, her smile. Remind herself that she can't help it, keep positive and keep re-assuring herself that you are doing your best for her.
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Old 02-14-2009, 05:12 PM
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She is thought to have very high Functioning Autism, but not yet diagnosed because of issues getting her insurance to pay for her to go the psychologist to finish the evaluations.

I am very consistent with her and I try to keep everything familiar too.

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Old 05-12-2009, 09:20 AM
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My youngest daughter (who's 5) has had OCD tendancies since she was very young. She has profound bilateral senorineural hearing loss (she's deaf). But her audiologist and PTs have said that OCD behaviors are common in children with her type of hearing loss. She's obsessed with water. And soap. And how things are placed. I learned long ago that if I need her toys picked up quickly I need to do it myself. She is incredibly meticulous about how and where things are placed and cannot leave them alone till they are perfect. She also has autistic behaviors and I can never remember off hand which behaviors go with which name. Sorting is an obsession. She cannot color until ALL the crayons or markers are sorted by color. Everything she plays with has to first be sorted by color. And then put into lines.
She also becomes a little obessed with cuts and scrapes. But they can be anywhere. No matter the size it MUST have a bandage, and she cleans it and changes the bandaid several times a day. And bandaids have to be put on EXACTLY right, or we have to scrap that one and start over with a fresh one.
I've noticed that the OCD and Autistic behaviors are more prevalent and more severe when she's not had enough sensory input though. My family, and her teachers, we've all picked up alot of techniques for dealing with her behaviors, mainly redirecting and sensory therapy. But sometimes you just gotta let them run their course, I can tell when she's in one and nothing will sidetrack it.
It definitely makes life interesting
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Old 05-12-2009, 10:01 AM
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Kaydee has been like this since i can remember too...she is only 18 months, but all the cabinets in the kitchen HAVE to be closed or she will stand there and point and scream until you close them. Once you do, she has to open and close it 3 times before she walks away. If anyone gets a cut on their legs she will stand and point to it everytime you walk into the room...and will do this for weeks, even when the cut is gone

who knows what he issues came from, and she is still young, but i just let her go until she is happy
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