[JeanLynn81]

Ok so I'm sure many of you know about all the problems I have been having with Alyssa's father.

Lucky for me, or so i thought, he hasn't been bugging me too much for a while now. But today he decided to come back and aggravate me.

In the back of my mind, I knew he would, because of it being father's day. In his crazy mind I guess, somewhere he thinks his daughter might want to see him this weekend sometime.

I can't type my emotions out too well. But I am bawling like a baby. My poor daughter just doesn't know whats wrong! But I can't help it.

He came out, banging on my door, and before the cops could get here, he shattered the front windshield of my car.

So the yard sale I am having tomorrow to raise funds for Alyssa's bday party? Well looks like that money has a different purpose.

Normally I don't post about him in this forum because him and his friends supposedly read everything I write.

But I want him to see this one. He ruined his daughter's party. And I want him to know that I hope to God above that when he goes to rot in hell (which he will-this boy is not Heaven material at all), that he will get back tenfold everything he has put me and Alyssa through.

[MommaColleen]

Awwww Jean, I'm so sorry. That really stinks and that sweet little girl is stuck in the middle. Can't the police do anything about the replacement of your windshield? I would think he should be responsible for paying for it since he broke it.

[mcmama]

Happy Fathers Day, Schmuck.

[JeanLynn81]

Originally Posted by MommaColleen

Awwww Jean, I'm so sorry. That really stinks and that sweet little girl is stuck in the middle. Can't the police do anything about the replacement of your windshield? I would think he should be responsible for paying for it since he broke it.

Well I filed a complaint but really the cops can't do anything if they can't find him, and they can't find him because honestly they just don't look. I've found him easily in the past when I put my mind to it.

When he smashed the window he ran. Fast. So fast that by the time I ran out with the camera, he was gone.

The cops were having a good laugh over it anyways. They know all the drama and they just don't care.

One thing I observed when I saw him (my ex) was that he does look homeless now. He had a long beard and scraggily looking hair, dirty, ripped clothes. Just dirty. And thin. Karma is getting back at him. I wish Karma would help get him away from me too.

[purelegance]

if they find him, he can be charged and is reponsible for replacement. i'm not sure of the steps, but i'm sure you can sue him in civil court. good luck jean!

[mcmama]

The cops are having a good laugh at him????

Well, sorry to put a damper on all that merriment. Maybe there's still something in the toys for tots bag at the police station to replace the items you were going to get for Alyssa's birthday.

I guess they have to laugh because they are so frustrated at a system that does not allow them to lock up nuisances like this and throw away the key.

Meantime, see if family friends and neighbors will take up a collection so that Alyssa can have the birthday party her father stole by smashing your windshield, thereby making it impossible for you to drive to work or properly care for her.

Oh, yeah. We're talking about Mr. "Work? What's that??? Who, MEEE???"

[mcmama]

BTW, forget the camera. Does your cell phone take pictures?

As an abused woman, I am sure you carry one at all times. Get one that takes pictures, and keep it on you at all times. Fully charged.

Also, you may be able to claim this on your auto insurance, depending on what you have in your policy. Then you have the advantage of having the INSURANCE COMPANY LAWYERS go after him. You have filed a police report.

Your ex is not a bright boy. Surely there is some trace, even if no one will own up to witnessing it.

[DK615617]

I am so sorry to hear that. I hope that she can still have her party.....she shouldn't suffer cuz her dad is so immature.
Maybe some friends can help out.
Hugs to you and her

[JeanLynn81]

Unfortunately I have liability and its not covered on insurance. Its going to cost me $200 which is about what I expect to make tomorrow. I have been working my booty off for months getting ready for this yard sale, and now all that hard work is gone down the drain. I guess I can be thankful that it fell on a time I really needed the money. I just thought it'd be nice to have something extra for a change. But I should just get used to being dirt poor and never having anything, because (yes, Janet) Mr boo Hoo won't work and pay child support.

And I can take him to small claims, if anyone can ever find him, but how is that going to work when he's a homeless bum?

Honestly, I'd rather see him go to prison, even if I'd never see a drop of money from him for the rest of my life.

Also wanted to add....I didn't put the yard sale signs up yet. SO GLAD because he'd for sure show up if he knew about it. I'm off to do the signs now. My brother is walking with me. I'll be back.

Oh, and I have a pay as I go phone, with no camera. But its all I can commit to right now.

[mcmama]

If you can get a judgement against him a judge can issue a bench warrant for his arrest.

Oh, that's right, those probably already exist. Yeah. Might interfere with the merriment at the police station if they have to actually look for him and haul him in.

Nevertheless, look into it.

Do you have a restraining order? He's violated it.

Even if you cannot "prove" it was him, you know it was. You can set the wheels in motion for him to be summoned to appear. That means bench warrant time.